Nuptivity – Bespoke Wedding Ceremonies for Extraordinary Couples

Your wedding ceremony is a story that begins with your first meeting.

Nuptivity is the combination of creativity with your nuptials. When you hire me as your officiant, you get a ceremony built around your story. Story is the place where your adventure begins.

Your ceremony contains the basics (your vows, the rings, etc.) but its elements are based upon those values you share. A thorough questionnaire process helps me uncover the central themes that are the basis for your remarkable relationship.

I use your love story to create a moving portrait of your relationship.

I develop rituals that express these themes. I find or write material that reinforces them.

This art of words, sights, and sounds will carry you forward as you make your commitment to love. You will not find a process like this anywhere else in our region.

If this is what you dream of on your special day, then let me write and perform your custom wedding ceremony.

My name is Ruth Sternberg, and my passion is helping you express the love and commitment that has grown between you.

NOT SURE WHAT YOU NEED? Contact me at ruth@nuptivity.com or call/text me at 585-201-8271. I serve the Rochester, NY region.

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“Ruth is the best of everything you want in a celebrant. She helped us handcraft an incredibly personalized ceremony when we were absolutely unsure of what we wanted. As a same sex couple, we hadn’t attended many weddings and didn’t know how to approach planning. But Ruth did!”

– Elizabeth Strater and Laura Moran

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ASL Interpreting Available

Discovery & Design

An in-person meeting focuses on your story and the vision for your ceremony. Then I work on your ceremony, incorporating all the elements that express your vision.

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Vows & Toasts

I give you expert help to create your own personalized vows. I also help your best man, best friend, parent or other designee craft a memorable toast.

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Your wedding day is your time to make a statement about your loving commitment to making a life together. Nuptivity allows you some room to do this your way. It focuses on the artistry of this most important aspect of your wedding, with a ceremony that may be spiritual or humanistic – but not religious. It also allows us to change it up with new seating arrangements, custom-design rituals that are clearly about the two of you, and fresh prose custom-written to say exactly what you intend.

“A wonderful experience! Ruth was not only available every step of the process, but she assisted in helping the wedding party understand their roles, the wedding procedure and more! The rehearsal was very much needed and went swimmingly, thanks to her guidance. She customized the ceremony with the story of how the couple met and their love for each other. Ruth was professional, kind, insightful and most of all, genuine.”

Lori Sparks

Your wedding day is your time to make a statement about your loving commitment to making a life together. A professional Celebrant can help you create a sacred space in which to feel embraced by your family and friends. A Celebrant is also an officiant, who designs and conducts your ceremony, and signs your paperwork. Nuptivity focuses on ceremonies that may be spiritual, but not necessarily religious – or that may be humanistic rather than spiritual.

It also allows us to change it up with new seating arrangements, custom-design rituals that are clearly about the two of you, and fresh prose custom-written to say exactly what you intend.

Nuptivity - Bespoke Wedding Ceremonies for Unconventional Couples

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