It’s a simple mission.
Nuptivity is the judgment-free zone where creativity, connectivity, inclusivity, and spirituality intersect with your deepest expressions of your friendship, respect, and mutual belief to inform your wedding ceremony.
Let’s explore and unfold the beauty in your relationship to help you reflect, within a sacred space among your family and friends, upon the reasons that you are joining your live. All couples, regardless of their backgrounds or circumstances, have the right to this opportunity to make a loving commitment. Marriage Equality is at the core of my business.
“It was phenomenal from the start. I had no idea where to begin, but then I came across Ruth on the Lavender Listings. All I had to do was send Ruth a text and things began rolling from there. Ruth met with my now husband and I for coffee to whittle down the details and she asked us all the right questions. Talking to her was like talking to an old friend. She made great suggestions and made everything very comfortable for us and our family. Everything was lovely and I will definitely recommend her to anyone who needs an officiant for their wedding!”
Jason Cook and Clayton Bidding
Services
Discovery & Design
This phase begins with a talk about your relationship, your plans, and your vision for your ceremony. After that, my work begins with research, original writing, and scripting of your ceremony. This result is a ceremony tailored to your personalities, beliefs, traditions, and expression of commitment.
Vows & Toasts
It can be scary to declare your feelings out loud. I will help you give voice to your commitment in your own words and voice. We can practice saying them if that makes you feel more confident. I can also work with the friends and family who will make your main wedding toasts, to help them shape those unforgettable moving or humorous tributes. Already hired another officiant? Call me anyway – because I can help you with these individual aspects.